Viewing category: riding the grief train

June 15, 2011
‘all flesh is grass’...
movie poster from What Dreams May Come Due to onset of rubbish cold I didn’t leave the house all weekend. I managed to drag self to [...]
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| 11 Bantering Wittily
May 19, 2011
sixty two...
The last few weeks have been a happy vortex of warm, sunny days, long weekends, new and old friends. Our garden has been filled with the [...]
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| 12 Bantering Wittily
March 27, 2011
digger murray’s...
Me, wearing my Mickey Mouse hat, in the garden of Digger Murray’s (note: already reading) It’s a simple wooden house, maybe two or three bedrooms; even [...]
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| 5 Bantering Wittily
November 25, 2010
thankful...
for the first coffee of the day, my knee-high brown leather birthday boots, my £2 woolly gloves. The coffee beans from Monmouth that Nic & Leonie left, [...]
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| 9 Bantering Wittily
May 9, 2010
mothering sunday...
www.marriedtothesea.com Like a magpie, I seem to find pairs and pairs of earrings that would be perfect for Mum, and just a few years ago a [...]
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| 7 Bantering Wittily
December 24, 2009
christmas travelly-trip...
Mum and me, Christmas 1974 Gatwick Airport is like a time warp to the less salubrious parts of the Soviet Union. Hardly festive, but it does [...]
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| 10 Bantering Wittily
November 25, 2009
a letter to my late mother on thanksgiving...
The knowledge that you are no longer here is a sudden raw sadness that strikes at odd times. Strangely, I have been irrevocably changed for the [...]
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| 21 Bantering Wittily
September 16, 2009
steel magnolias...
I can’t remember a time when Mary wasn’t around and Mum met Prue about 20 years ago. I would periodically find them all in the kitchen [...]
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| 5 Bantering Wittily
May 19, 2009
60...
The 20th of May, should have been all about Mum celebrating her 60th birthday. She used to turn this up loud and do the hoovering.
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| 4 Bantering Wittily
March 8, 2009
who’s afraid of lucy jordan?...
Marianne Faithful was on Andrew Marr this morning. She is TOTALLY on my fantasty dinner party invitation list. I listened to Broken English hundred’s of times [...]
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| 0 Bantering Wittily
December 9, 2008
anniversarius horrendous...
It was about 4 months after she had actually died, that I realised Mum was really gone. I was standing at the Terminal 3 arrivals gate, [...]
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| 2 Bantering Wittily
November 24, 2008
lucky number 9...
The last holiday I had with Mum was a weekend in Tuaranga for a family friend’s 40th. For those few days, a weird pattern began to [...]
















